It is all too common that a marriage or any other type of long-term relationship falls into a sexual slump after a couple of years have gone by and the sexual curiosity has been replaced by a boring routine. Men are more able to go on auto-pilot when it comes to sex, sure they will miss the playful sexiness of those early years, but they can sustain on the old in-and-out routine for a longer period of time than a woman.
For a woman, it is harder to detach the brain from her snatch, as for a man, the penis and his brain has never been the best of friends anyway. Whether this is a cultural thing or genetics, let the scientists argue about that and let us just conclude that for the time being, that is how things are.
So if you are one of those women, that have had lust just bored right out of you, how can you get those juices flowing again without risking to lose husband and home? Well, to begin with, it will probably not be that hard, since if your husband is one of those so focused on his career that he has forgotten that he has a hot, red-blooded woman at home, he is not likely to pick up any small changes in your routine.
For many women, the foreplay starts with just signing up for a dating site. This is where the excitement starts to creep in, as you set-up your profile your brain automatically starts to interact with your muff, as you start filling your profile with all the naughty fantasies that you have been carrying for so long without the possibility of any release. But coming to an adult dating site, you will know that the power of getting it released lies with you, and it is only a click on a mouse-button away.
All you need is the gap of one hour in your weekly schedule. You may convince yourself that you do not have that, but then you would also know that you are only trying to fool yourself. That is the beauty of the no strings affair, it does not have to take long. If you find someone that makes you tick, an hour later you can return home as a new women with a dizzy head after you have just gotten your brains screwed out.
Tell your husband that you feel the need to fulfill yourself, say that you are going to take up a pottery class and offer him a place in it too, and transform any suspicion he might harbor into a relieved feeling of being left off the hook once you stop nagging for him to come along and say that you are taking the course anyway.
There are plenty of these boring courses that you can use as an excuse, and the best thing about them is that you will never have to sneak away for an hour, instead you will have your hubby waving you off with a happy smile, thanking the Lord Almighty for being spared a course in weaving area rugs, while you are off to getting doggy-styled by a hot, young stud.